Today another topic...not very usual on this blog

I hear people talking about relationships in multiple ways, I see people having different kinds of relationships, I know people doing various things for their relationships…I could go on…but some people might stop reading at this point and would scream…what´s your point?

My point is, dear friends, that I just realized today, how fascinated I am by the variety of means how people can be satisfied in their relationships. There are a lot of bonds, which couples are creating since the time they are together. Some people want to have a heavy bond right away, and if they don´t have it, they feel they will never get it, and they lose interest. Some people do not want to create tight connections at all and they just want to enjoy indefinite company of the other person without any particular reason. Most people, I would guess, gather these bonds by experience. And sometimes it is true, that the more hassles, problems, crucial situations – the more bonds are created. The couple starts to rely on each other in difficult situations, which is usually stronger bond than the one coming from the pleasant times, but I am not saying that is not important :-).

One friend of mine told me, that she usually tests a guy by being very stubborn and making him do things for her or according to her in certain situations. What she then really wants is, that the guy himself tells her at specific point…now that has really been too much, you´ve got to let go on this. And that would prove to her, that he would not make a fool of himself and she finds it attractive. Well, do we really need to test guys like this? If you prefer…but why would I need to test something artificial when real tests are happening every day.

I think what most girls do in relationships is that they gradually like more and more the things their boyfriends like because we like to see our boys happy. And I think boys have it like this as well. Then we start doing things together and that creates a totally new dimension because we have a new experience, new bond.

To conclude, I am so thankful for the relationship I am having now, I have never experienced so many nice and new things before :-). And I am telling my man every day.

My first sickleave

Hey there, I happen to be on my first official sick leave in employee status, so apart from drinking a lot of tea, having rest and taking some some pill every 6 hours, I also thought of doing some blogging again.

My job has been really crazy in the last two months and I am still not entirely clear what my new position is going to look like because a lot seems to be changing all around. I thought I had a nice idea at the beginning, but Cisco is such a bloody complex creature. I like revealing its complexity, however, not everytime we like the things, we reveal. So… I rather write about something else. And let´s make it a new article.